Here’s What I’ve Learned — By: Kris Lane Trigger Warning ⚠️: None. This is a lessons learned publication. Not in the mood for a rant? Off you go. A Dozen Reasons for A Dozen Years If you’re new here, I’m a veteran single woman. This is year 12. To learn the long story read through my ramblings starting in 2019. The short…

Males Do Not Like Me…..Or Themselves. By Kris Lane Trigger Warning ⚠️: Dear reader. This article will discuss personal experiences with the male species. This is not a generalization of all men, or all women. This is a perspective as a participant in American society and the outcome of that…

Authors Note: Next Series Highlights By: Kris Lane Dear All, My next series of publications will have trigger points. As an existential writer, my goal is to intentionally make my reader understand we cause ourselves our own pain by the life choices we make because we allow others too much…

Ask for a Friendship By: Kris Lane Greetings and Salutations. If you’ve joined me the last four years and change I thank you sincerely. It is time to end this series. I started this series mentally, physically, and, emotionally broken. Probably the most in pieces I had found myself in…

It’s ok to say so By: Kris Lane Well here we are folks. About to close another year, deeper in the pit of shit no one asked for, and more alone than ever. No there’s no going back to the old world. No life will never be normal, no life…

Succeeding at Them is Understanding the Difference By: Kris Lane Harbor Point in Stamford CT, is the location of my pre-pandemic stomping grounds. You would find me on carefully chosen Sunday’s at happy hour post the brunch rush. I made acquaintances with a bartender there and used him as a…

By: Kris Lane It was the best of times and the worst of times. I don’t think Charles Dickens estimated the magnitude of his foresight. If you’ve followed along my Medium induced dive into the ninth circle of hell and the attempt to decode the greatest paradox known as the…

Choice and Decision By: Kris Lane Humans despise independent people. Inferiority, pride, resentment, jealousy, and good ole’ fear have proven this theory true time and again. We use passive aggressiveness when we feel threatened by someone who has done nothing more than careen through life without excuses. We go out…

The Not So New Normal By: Kris Lane In my house social media platforms are not allowed. For myself included. My almost twelve year old has a Tik Tok account. Carried over from Musicly days. This is the only exception to the rule. That Tik Tok account is monitored by…